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- Published on May 27, 2023 veröffentlicht
- A candid look at some of the complications that come along with modern relationships.
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Side-chick purgatory is really just you being manipulated. If they wanted you, they would find a way.
Wise Words Paper Mario
You also don't want no one who's a leaving someone for you or has you as a side peice, cause you're gonna be next in line
@cagethelonewolf yup u kno what they say..😒how you get em is the same way u lose em👌🏾💯
It’s not really manipulation if you chose to be in that situation. You can leave but most side chicks don’t they stay in hopes of getting better. Even when the man clearly tells them that you are a side chick. Which is a lack of respect on their part for sticking around.
@Casimir’s Gamervers true, a lot of the time people willingly become a side chick. “I’m not looking for anything serious”, is a dead giveaway lmao
These relationship videos have been giving me hope for almost 10 years now 😭
A lot of my friends don’t take my relationship advice so I’m glad to hear whenever it’s being applied and working!!
10 years and still nothing 😭
10 years and counting for me lol but it’s bound to work one day
Einstein’s definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result ._.
Man Swoozie's life is way too exciting. Like, last week I got my favorite ice cream from the store and played Tears of the Kingdom in my pajamas. That was the most interesting point.
So I gotta ask how was it, you know… the ice cream?
That sounds like how I might wrap up my work week and you know what? That is 100% perfectly fine with me, lol. If I want an intetesting life, I'll travel. I don't need a 1001 failed relationship stories to be "interesting"...no offense, Swoozie 😂
Literally
That sounds fine in of itself
Sounds way healthier.
Becoming the side piece was the most traumatic and self confidence chattering thing that ever happened to me. I wasn’t even initially attracted to this dude but he was slowly buttering up on my feelings, idk charisma. Promising me all those things Swooz said “Ima BrEak Up wiTh her” “I’m FigUrinG Out tHe liVing siTuatioN” “YoU’re WhAt I wAnT” I wasted so much precious time because of this. So no anyone ever get to hear these kind of things LEAVE they ain’t gonna change.
Wow thanks for sharing! I’m reading other ppls testimonies here and loving that u guys are making me feel less alone on this topic
1000%
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im glad that it didnt work out for you. ❤ imagine being such a lowlife that your talking to a taken man.
Now that I'm 18, I definitely needed this to know what to avoid. Thank you once again for another relationship advice.
Same🙏🏾
@Nicholas346this isn’t even something parents normally talk to their kids about
@Nicholas346 Dude, I have African Parents. That's a whole other story
one eight gang
Nicholas parents relationship advice could either be the best that is ever spoken, or outdated af
Swoozie makes me so happy and gets me through sad days
Grilled cheese Obama sandwich
music to my eyes. thanks sm for watching!
You are awesome dude 😎
@sWooZie I'm impressed that you can like pop culture and act like a mature adult
Never settle for being a side. Either you're their main dish or they can go hungry. 😤😤
Haven’t seen you post in a bit, glad you’re still kickibg
well that’s just not realistic…
@Jay Clearmenwell you’re a cheater so it’s not gonna make sense to you
@Jay ClearmenHow?
The day a guy makes me his side chick is the day I'll enter my villain era.
Go gurl!
That villain era would just be you letting a bunch of dudes hit it for free 💀
Villain saga
@prod.youngsensai8550 Why you gotta do them like that💀
Olive most times when girls say this then thats what it means but what do I know 🤷🏾♂️
I was unknowingly the side-chick in someone's two-year relationship, which resulted in the most complicated situationship ever. Almost four years later, that sh*t still has me confused! Stay loyal, y'all! 😅😭😂
I was in a situationship with a guy who kept giving me mixed signals. Two months after I ended it, HE GOT MARRIED 🤔 I’m still wondering to this day what the heck happened.
This is so normal nowadays everyone thinks it’s ok to have a side😭
We yall here breaking the cycle because its never okay😢
There are 2 million more Women than Men in the black community…and that’s not counting people who are homosexual, incarcerated, or infertile. Side chicks are inevitable there are not enough men to go around 😂😂
@504Shotty nah that’s just an excuse to be a thot
@504Shotty Not sure about the numbers but I agree non the less
I refuse to be a side chick, It don’t matter how lonely I am. Personally, don’t see the appeal of messing around with somebody that isn’t my boyfriend. Though this is coming from someone who hasn’t dated before lmao
I’ve dated and I agree with you. Lol
Man the only time I've ever dated was for a few hours in 2nd grade lmao
Well it's as Swooz said, the side pieces are there to fill in what's missing in the main relationship. I guess this is why I'm still single because I refuse to be anybody's side piece as well. 🤷🏽♂️
Girlll it’s about self respect and treating other the way you want to be treated. Nothing wrong with it. I have boundaries and don’t think girls or guys should even be trying to talk to someone with a partner. Unlesssssss they were friends before or meet you as a couple
Hey baby 😘 lol
Side pieces are just there to fill in the cracks in ppls relationship…they don’t even bother to take up space sometimes….🤔🧐
Thanks so much for the SUPER THANKS! There are so many layers to it too! When The side piece knows they're the side. When the side piece DOESN'T know they're the side. When the MAIN PIECE knows there is a side piece...
*real*
@sWooZie There’s so many layers!! its like a whole new world. Ive been a side piece before and it didn’t feel great…but now…IM THE ONLY PIECE LOL 😂 (not with the same guy im with…long story) lol
@JaeJae You were able to talk to Swoozie We all wish to be you
DAMN RIGHT!!!!
Forget the side chicks, I just want a main chick 😢😂
Grilled cheese Obama sandwich
@ShreksScrumptiousSexySweatyFeet ッ My heart cant take this damage
Foget about the Main chick i just want friends
You'll find someone right for you when the time is right. Don't lose hope!
@Mc3D Truth. A couple good friends can give you more happiness than several signficant others can. After countless heartbreaks, they were the ones who taught me how to love myself again
I was the side piece, too. I was romantically involved with this girl who had a boyfriend. It was frustrating because she wouldn't leave him for me despite saying she loved me. Eventually, it turned toxic. She blamed me for everything and I couldn't make any mistakes but her boyfriend could. It's been years since then but being the side piece can be a bad place to be. I don't recommend it.
Bro the moment she u heard she had a man you leave cause u don't know who that dude is why get involved in some mess
Blessings come in all forms. She wasn't the one my guy
@Chidera KalajiFacts..
”Sometimes rejection is gods Protection”
-Some Preacher guy
do with that tidbit of knowledge what u will.
Why the heck would you wanna be with someone who's cheating on their partner for you? Bro you have low self esteem? She didn't love you just said that to keep you around
I can’t wait for the day Swooz gets married, that will be the final arc Ive waited for my whole life 🤝
Imagine having a serious and loyal relationship.
Read the first word again brother
Yeah, Imagine.. that's all most of us can do. Especially nowadays were we often get side chicked and backstabbed. Honest commitment and loyalty is so rare nowadays.
imagine having a relationship.
Seeing Swoozie being animated into a slab of meat makes me fully realize what a "side-piece" actually means lol.
Swoozie, I want to thank you for posting so constantly lately. I was having a rough day yesterday and I watched some of your videos with made me smile. Thanks for being you❤
I'm happy to see swoozy posting these videos again
Sameeeee
Didn’t think I would see Swoozie animated as a piece a meat, but I’m not mad at it🤷🏾♀️
Swoozie’s stories always take place over several months. I’m slowly starting to wonder if our boy is like a hundred and just looks that good.
Nah swoozie casually dropping a fusion frenzy reference will NOT go unnoticed
I was wondering who would rise up and mention that first. Step forward sir and be knighted *taps sword on shoulders*
FUZIOOOOOOOON FRENZYYYYYYYYYYYY
“Y’all don’t know when this happened” mentions Fusion Frenzy… I can take a guess lol
OG Xbox represent.
Swoozie it’s crazy how I’ve been watching your videos for years now and they still entertain me LOL!! 😂
It's the worst when as the side chick, you don't even know you're the side chick. It's even worse when you think you're the main chick as the side chick. 😢😢😢😂
I love when really likable people like Swoozie get rewarded on platforms like this for just being their likeable self! Idk just cool to see a guy like him have millions of subscribers just for being a cool fun person. I hear the stories and like I’m sure many others I just find myself thinking I’d wanna be friends with this guy if i knew him in person! Keep up that good work
It’s always a great and funny and relatable video when swoozie uploads at the right time 💀🤣😂
Glazing 😭
Grilled cheese Obama sandwich
@ShreksScrumptiousSexySweatyFeet ッ “HMMM baby I don’t under stand this?.. 🖤😭”
I love the image of Chun-li trying to push you onto Cammy. Chun-li: (Pushing Swoozi into Cammy's hands) "Girl you need to try a taste of this snack! It's always available and fresh whenever you need to treat yourself to something different!"
Right! Her pushing me like ‘try a little of this milk chocolate’.
@sWooZie What happened with Cammy?
@sWooZie yea what happened
He keeps dropping lit videos with inpressive content keep on shinin my star. You definitely aint losing your top spot from my fav youtuber.
There are a lot of yters so I’m honored tysm!
*it's always a good time watching your story telling videos.* :) Thanks for keeping things funny and down to earth.
im learning the real life experience because of swoozie, you the goat dawg now i know what to avoid in my future relationships
Never trust anyone who says they're *"On a Break".*
That's just code for "I'm sleeping around right now, but I have my back-up plan on the back burner for now because I'm bored."
Cheaters are cheaters. Never succumb.
Take that Rachel!!!
I Like how Swoozie tells stories like he talkin to a homie👍😂
I love this guy forever and ever and he gave us some knowledge to be careful what we need to know to red flags to relationships to break up to toxic and onto side pieces!
I’m no psychology person, but Swooize has good taste. 🥂
Swoozie has the patience of a GOD, because I can't think of many guys that would talk to a girl that long without "benefits" for over a month
Better to be a loner than a side piece!
It's strange how Adande just finds himself in the most peculiar situations.
Bro not only are we getting consistent Swoozie again but it's consistent A+ Swoozie with the hilarious ways he says stuff. I'm gonna be saying hungrier than a hostage the rest of my life.
For a long time I thought this was only something that happened to attractive men with rizz. But becoming a side person happens to anyone, including me. I SO related with Swoozie when he mentioned the whole "Oh you're single? But are you really?" So many people just lie in the moment to get what they want from yah, and next thing you know you an accomplice to the crime of cheating on a partner.
Does swoozie still expect us to believe he’s out here having 30 min make out seshes and he’s not smashing? 😭😭
When every sWooZie makes a video it never disappoints
Me: Trying to stay away from drama. Swoozie bring in drama: Oh here we go! 🤣
i love this guy's content! always speaking truth!
How would you know? You're his best friend?
@Gurunext - YT CEO 💖 jesus christ i just like his content you don't need to be like that.
@Wojciech Glinianowicz My plan is working - you have demoted Love to a Like 🤠 And you're trying to summon Jesus Christ - Idk how you gonna do that 🤔
@Gurunext - YT CEO 💖 i did not understand a word you just said, try speaking english please
@Wojciech Glinianowicz In English it would sound: How dare you be so offensive and insult the way I write comments?!?!?! 😲😲😮😮 Then you'll start typing under my videos that I should speak English too?
Swooz really brought the energy for this video! You know it’s a good weekend when you get a morning Sunday vid! Feels like I went to church!! Preach on my brother!!
"being a side chick is like being in destiny child" already starting of good🤣
I usually hate listening to long videos, but I just love watching your videos. You were just soo entertaining 🤣
great storyteller. long time subscriber :)
Was in the middle of a Craig of the creek marathon then saw Swoozie talkin about side chicks, this shit boutta be GOOD
Swoozie, your videos are on point and to the point. Love the way you tell it and display it. Thank you bro.
Another Fantastic video, thanks for all the fun informative stories Swooz, you the GOAT!😁
Hey sWooZie! I started watching your videos this year and I didn't have much girlfriends. If I did, it lasted a week. But now that I watched your relationship videos, I am dating my girlfriend and we've been dating strong for almost a year. Thank you for helping.
Hey Swoozie!Keep the awesome animation coming!😁🎉
Omg Swoozie I am so glad you are still making videos!!! I forgot your name and couldn’t find you. It’s been like a decade. You’re still here and still hilarious. I’m so happy.
Perfect timing to post, swoozie
Ong
yup
Big facts
Grilled cheese Obama sandwich
My calories can’t stand it
This is the highlight of my day, and every day I end up coming back because y'all know I binge swooz even if he isn't uploading.
These stories are really entertaining. 😂 I love the pop 🌽 moment.
This video made me laugh and made my day LOL. Thanks Swoozie
Always here for the Swoozie wisdom as usual 😅👍🏼
i honestly dont even understand people who cheat, like either you have everything youre looking for in your relationship, or you should just move on and find someone else
this
This video helped me finally contextualize an interaction I had with a girl who was giving me MAD signals while she had a man she was on the outs with. People are wild 😂
I like how this video is called SIDE CHICKS when it's really SIDE sWooZie 😂😂😂 you are the best storyteller, though!
I was a side chick but didn’t even know 😭 I felt bad because I wouldn’t want it be side stepped so I told him I got with someone 😂 he ended that QUICK
26 and never been in a relationship. When I hear stories like this, I’m kinda glad I’m alone. 😅
It’s not a swoozie story without a crazy make out session somewhere
Swoozie is spoiling us lately 🥰
Yup. I’ve dodged those situations. It’s like I got ultra instinct in dodging and catching lies.
Swoozie forgot the time he was busy with a married woman that was an Uber driver 😂😂😂
I've been a viewer for over a decade 😂😂😂 these videos are always 🔥
For real, tho. I am way too monogamous to deal with the side chick/poly bs. Cheating is a big no-no for me. The Destiny's Child analogy is perfect!!! Side chicks be thinking they gonna be the main chick soooo true hahahaaa
side chicks are basically free therapists 🤷🏽♀ (I'm saying this because I've been through this as a side chick for the first time and now I'm in therapy because of that. never again.)
Swoozie will always be my main chick
I was a sidechick for about a month as a college freshman. The main found out ab me real quick and ended things even quicker. I thought he was soooooo into me for those couple of weeks and had me meet all his friends. Buuuuut he ended things with me before we became official bc he felt too guilty to start a relationship by cheating. Surprise, surprise I found out he asked out and got rejected by some other guy I didn't know about the very next day.
Needless to say, I regret the choice. He wasn't even my type. I really only did it because I had just found out I had gotten kinda sorta cheated on by some other guy I was exclusive with (but wasn't official with either so???) and was feeling VERY bad about myself.
This video made me realize I was the side piece. Met a girl online who pulled the whole "we're practically broken up' just a matter of time" bs and love bomb me a bunch to make me stay until she ditched me for another side piece
Thank you for posting this life has been difficult these last few days. I wouldn’t want to be a side chick just because it’s disrespectful to the other woman.
It’s just messed up because there are women that wouldn’t mind being side chicks and genuinely want to be side chicks. There was a literal book written on how to be a side chick by a side chick and it made millions! There are even women that would claim they would never be a side chick just to be a side chick for the “right guy”
I've been watching swoozie since 09 when i found him from wcg ultimate gamer. This guy is hands down my favorite youtuber OAT and every single upload never disappoints. needed this video fam
these videos are always very fun to watch!
Yo after hearing all that, speaking as someone who’s been the piece of meat and the person who got cheated both at the same time, no one deserves to cycle through all that stuff through their mind because on all sides, no one wins and when the truth comes out, it eats at people’s brains
I like the way you framed the fact these side pieces are dating cheaters. I believe in karma. When these side pieces finally find someone they want to be exclusive with, I hope they get cheated on.
legendary video as usual, GOT A MAIN CHICK AND A MISTRESS
Ngl, you can always count on Swoozie for good life advice 😊😊😊
This whole video got me in tears 😂😂😂 i was having a whole reaction listening too him becoming a side piece 😂😂
Swoozie lips has got to have the DNA of every baddie on the planet
Swoozie still out here laying down the hits, vid after vid, the mans doesn't know how to miss!
swoozie legit the only bigger youtuber that feels like a part of the community, not the leader of one
Always love your advice
I like his story telling.
The best friend being cammy was a nice touch
This video kind of reminds me of a "friends with benefits" situation. Back in high school, my ex at the time, before we got together, he suggested that we have a friends with benefits kind of thing going. I didn't let that happen as I was very insistent on not going that far in the relationship yet. Eventually, we did get together officially, dated for a bit but broke up as he didn't seem to put out any effort and focused on the physical part of the relationship. I have my faults too (not being more vocal about my feelings and just focusing on making him happy in the relationship, instead of making sure I was happy too.)
Don't be a side piece or let someone think you're a meal that you can have at any time. If someone wants legs and thighs, they can go to KFC, and get a value meal.
Genuinely don't want to date in a world where cheating is normalized 😭
Thank u swooshes for the insight and great story brother u made me laugh and made my day
i was a side chick to my gf who was in an open relationship and then they broke up and i became the main chick and we lived happily ever after
needed this, swoozie
i'm on my 4th or 5th account probably but i've been watching u for a good 7 or so years and ur videos always hit the mark man
Some girl just cheated on her bf with me and made me think she wasn't happy in her relationship, she kind of manipulated both of us
Man Swoozie, we're here for ANY tea you gotta spill! Like... ANY TEA, might be a friend's friend's great gramma, we Gucci... Ain't we y'all?
Honestly, I'm bi and I think my bf would know how big of a threat "let me meet them" is. because that would be my go to. "let me meet them, let me talk to them" I have also been on both sides of this. It is interesting. At one point I just got used to being "the side piece" because it kept fucking happening.
I've been an unknowing side piece more often than I'd like to admit. But a big part of that is my own fault really. I don't ask half the time. I feel like if she has a boyfriend and respects him, she'll say something(as in, I won't get that far in the first place).
The real interesting thing is how they react when everything is revealed and you're cool with it. Some girls actually just don't give a fuck and now just have another person to complain about their bf to, some get really defensive about it and try to turn on you, and other girls suddenly become guilty about it and break it off.
But regardless... all these experiences are probably why I have major trust issues 😂😂😅
I have a gut feeling that I've been the person many guys cheated on their partners with, and it's really not a good feeling. They expect the same level of committment from you, just with zero responsibility (and I felt like I had to go out of my way to flirt with other people in front of them so they know they don't have power over me, the games were too much work). Also, I still don't know how someone can feel comfortable in a relationship where your SO cheats on their partner to be with you. If you don't have trust in any relationship, you have nothing.
The stories + the popcorn + The Rizzard of Oz = A 100% Certified Swoozie Banger
I laughed more than I should've at the Rizzard of Oz joke 😂
I love you forever Swoozie ❤
I love u forever + infinity
when he said 'shout out to all my home wreckers out there' i felt that, got a good laugh but now i feel guilty