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Life Update: Divorce and Moving on

  • Published on Nov 21, 2022 veröffentlicht
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Comments • 3 337

    SWOOP 7 days ago +594

    Sending you the biggest, warmest, most gentle hugs and support in the world. I think we can all agree, we’re just happy to see you existing. You’re such a blessing, whether you upload or not, share or not… just exist how you need to. All my love. 💙

    • Bully tails & boss cat paws
      Bully tails & boss cat paws 4 hours ago

      Divorced my first husband. Who is the father of my kid's. We sort of grew up together. We met when I was 17 and separated and divorced shortly after I turned 30 years old. It was hard. Very hard. And a whole mess. And I think you are so wise. It's very important to take care of yourself. 🫶 It's a process. And if you have respect for you and everyone involved. It will take you through this tuff time. And in to better times. I am much older than Hannah end Swoop. But you are much better in taking care of yourself in hard times. I am so impressed by this. 💜🤗🌷🐾

    • megs 🌸
      megs 🌸 3 days ago

      Beautifully said🥺❤️

    • Oluwatolu Burianu
      Oluwatolu Burianu 4 days ago

      Try more of it it very amazing

    • Shannon Miles
      Shannon Miles 5 days ago +2

      Well said Swoop!!! You are amazing as well girl!!! 💙💙💙

    • JaneJaneGoAway
      JaneJaneGoAway 5 days ago +1

      I love how supportive both Swoop and Hannah are of each other. There are so many contact creators who are only in it for themselves, and these two women are inspiring in their camaraderie and kindness. You guys are the reason that Clip-Share is still a platform I love. It is so easy to be so shitty. It is hard to be vulnerable and genuinely kind and I thank you both.

  • hulahoolahoo
    hulahoolahoo Day ago

    I can’t imagine going through what you’ve gone through this year. I am so incredibly sorry. I am happy to hear that you have friends who are supportive ❤️

  • Ezgi Cinar
    Ezgi Cinar 2 days ago +3

    You are one of the sharpest woman I’ve ever met! You can do anything you want in life 👍🏻💚

  • Tiffany Richardson
    Tiffany Richardson 10 hours ago

    This is why I’m so scared of marriage. I’ve been in a relationship for 15 years and have 2 children together. I know so many people who are happy, they get married and then everything goes downhill and it ends in divorce. So sorry Hannah and Charles, I hope you both find true happiness ❤

  • hippopajamas
    hippopajamas 10 days ago +7819

    Alright everyone. Hannah isn't reading the comments, so let's all just agree: we are going to watch the SHIT out of glowmas. We're going to leave endless supportive comments and if she misses a day we aren't going to say a gd thing. We're going to make glowmas outperform all of her wildest dreams so that her imposter syndrome can't survive under the FACT that her subscribers believe in her.

  • Eve Coffman
    Eve Coffman Day ago

    Oh Hannah I feel for you so much. Thank you for going the extra mile and being so open and vulnerable with us. I’m so proud of you for getting through this year, it may not feel like it now but you will come out of this even stronger and brighter than you already are ❤

  • Le Petite Morte
    Le Petite Morte 2 days ago +1

    My husband and I are agreeing to a divorce literally right now. I am devastated. It’s torn my world apart. What a timely video. 💔

  • R Carter
    R Carter 2 days ago

    We appreciate any and all content you gift us with, no need to feel bad it doesn't follow a 'schedule'. Stoked for glowmas however big or small ❤

  • Vi Huynh
    Vi Huynh Day ago

    I believe I married too early. I’m 24 now and married a year ago. I also love my partner of many years (high school “sweethearts”). I’m just so glad you talked about this bc, personally and coincidentally, I feel like I’m going through this right now. We have good times, but I just feel stupid for marrying so early in my life for very personal reasons and issues. Your openness and honesty is changing my feelings towards myself about my situation. I just wanted to thank you. So thank you. I really appreciate your video!

  • Mama Pajama
    Mama Pajama 10 days ago +5392

    I also married my 6 year partner on paper for legal purposes and planned a big wedding the following year, and three months before called the whole thing off and filed for divorce within the year. It’s a humbling life moment, to say the least. Almost a decade later we both have better partners for us and we are also proud we took the high road, the way we handled it. You will end up in a stronger relationship, but I walked that road and I feel for you. It wasn’t easy.

    • VirgA
      VirgA 3 days ago +1

      @Annie Beeson thank you for sharing wisdom 💜

    • External TV
      External TV 6 days ago +1

      Look if you cheated on your girlfriend, but you still love her, it is absolutely okay not to tell her or let her know. Sometimes it’s better to keep secrets and it helps you bring closer together. I did it so I know why it’s important to keep it away.

    • Dayna L
      Dayna L 6 days ago +1

      @MoltenJimmy yet here you are.

    • Marlon
      Marlon 6 days ago +1

      It's ONLY a paper REMEMBER, atheist big cry.

    • B A L L E R
      B A L L E R 8 days ago +1

      6 year? That’s a minor

  • Annika Crossley
    Annika Crossley Day ago

    I got engaged a month ago and hearing these kinds of stories scares the shit out of me. Couples who seem so healthy and solid can still not work out and it’s my biggest fear going into marriage :/ I’m so sorry you had such a terrible year Hannah

  • Veronica Gonzalez
    Veronica Gonzalez 2 days ago

    as for the grief, it gets easier. just know the phrase “this too shall pass”, if you’re having a bad day don’t worry this too shall pass. if you’re having a great day sadly, this too shall pass. time is both a blessing and a curse. find solitude in the knowledge that every emotion, good or bad, shall pass and passes for everyone. it’s the human experience ❤
    for glowmas: you do whatever you feel you can handle. ❤

  • JC
    JC 23 hours ago

    You are stronger, more talented, more beautiful and more resilient than you know. Much love from the U.K. ❤

  • jellibean429
    jellibean429 Day ago

    Some years are truly like that..one blow after another. I'm glad you are pushing through. It won't be this hard forever.

  • Melissa M
    Melissa M 10 days ago +1532

    Saw the title and immediately clicked. Whatever happened we are here to support you! Love you ❤️

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      Sara McDonald's 6 days ago


    • datninja
      datninja 10 days ago

      @Heather Curry I did chuckle lol I didn’t expect it

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    • Pattess
      Pattess 10 days ago +6

      Same here... all the support from us. Even Sara.

  • Haley
    Haley 3 days ago

    I met my ex husband when I was 17. We got married shortly after I turned 22, and we got divorced shortly after I turned 25. It was the hardest thing that I have ever been through and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy, ever.
    That was 6 years ago. I’m married again, to legitimately the best man I’ve ever known, we have our perfect daughter. My first marriage is like a past life and I don’t know who that person was anymore. Life is weird and even when it feels like our world has stopped, it really does keep moving and life keeps going on and it gets so much better and so much more beautiful.
    All the best to you, Hannah. ✨🖤

  • Ellie Rmrz
    Ellie Rmrz 2 hours ago

    You’re literally the most wonderful human. I know you aren’t reading the comments, but I just wanted to put that out there into the universe. 🫶🏻

  • M. Mari
    M. Mari 2 days ago

    My heart breaks to hear how sad you've been, but you are such a beautiful light in the world and I know you'll bounce back.

  • 𝖉𝖆_𝖊𝖝𝖎𝖘𝖙

    You are so strong! Stay like that.
    I appreciate you sharing your bad and good with us.
    Best wishes

  • Pearl
    Pearl 10 days ago +1859

    I’m so sorry, divorces and breakups are pretty hard to go through especially when you go through a miscarriage the same year. This must be so hard for you, but just know that your fans are there for you and we love you❤️❤️

  • 🌼Boo's Gaming
    🌼Boo's Gaming  3 days ago

    I'm just happy to see you're ok 🥰

  • Naaz Gulati
    Naaz Gulati Day ago

    Girl, I don’t know if you will see this and I understand your need to take care of yourself by refraining from reading the comments, but I want to thank you.
    Thank you for sharing your grief, and your insights into it so far.
    I went through a sudden end of an engagement after 5 years together in 2020 and that grief is so real. Even tho the love was still there, it had to come to an end. That grief you speak of is real. It’s grieving the lose of one of your best friends, your cheerleader, your biggest fan, your partner through the good and the bad. But also what I’ve learned in the two years since the breakup, it’s grieving the future you planned to have together. The children, the home, the dinners at home, the vacation, the time spent as a family. I still consider my ex my family, and he’s a dear friend, but that pang of grief over what could have been, but never will, is excruciating.
    I admire you and glad to hear you have such an amazing support system (which is key!) but also give yourself the moments to grieve. All things we had to let go of, and all the things we didn’t know weren’t going to come to fruition with this person whose hand we thought we’d be holding forever.
    All the love and warmth to you from NYC ❤.

  • Julia Barriere
    Julia Barriere 3 days ago

    My heart absolutely goes out to you, your definitely are having a worst year than me...

  • Alexandra Malespin
    Alexandra Malespin 10 days ago +907

    I ran into Hannah in July at a restaurant and she was with a group of friends. She was so lovely! I was in shock of course because I love her channel and she was the most wonderful person ever. I would have not guessed in a million years she was right in the middle of all of this :( Breakups are so fucking hard - I wish everyone in the comments that are sharing their struggles the best! My 3 year relationship ended Christmas of 2021 and it was horrible, but for the best, and I am now realizing that and seeing the fruit of dedicating time to myself and my growth. I can't wait for Glowmas!!! 💕✨

    • cletus24
      cletus24 5 days ago

      @The Grey thanks

    • The Grey
      The Grey 5 days ago +2

      ​@cletus24This is so original. Omg you so cool.

    • mary
      mary 8 days ago +8

      @Random Dude what goes through your mind to comment this on a video where someone is talking about separating from their life partner? literally insane

    • Marlon
      Marlon 8 days ago

      Bro, for u to find someone that loves u is great... wow nothing personal but beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder...

    • cletus24
      cletus24 8 days ago

      Are you sure it was a large group of friends and not just her pigging out by herself? I mean with someone this size it's hard to tell

  • Reading with Richard
    Reading with Richard 10 days ago +931

    I'm glad you and Charles are being amicable. My divorce pushed me into a severe depressive psychosis. It didnt help that my ex husband had been unfaithful, left me penniless, flaunted his new partner around my place of work and then told everyone I was crazy and abusive because he didnt want to look bad for all he did. Safe to say I dont speak with him anymore.

    • frnk
      frnk 7 days ago

      I wish my breakup was mutual/amicable like hannah's... I had thought about ending it for various reasons but I really valued what I believed to be a strong connection and commitment. so I was the one broken up with in a cruel and uncaring way. now I don't know if I'll ever trust someone who says they are in love with me, or that he wants to marry me one day...

    • Mr. Incognito YT
      Mr. Incognito YT 8 days ago

      Sorry you had to deal with such an awful man. Hope you're getting better.

    • mandypdx
      mandypdx 10 days ago +1

      @Reading with Richard so sorry! I hope you’re doing better now 💜

    • gummie
      gummie 10 days ago +2

      Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Too bad for the next partner tho. You’re free now and even though he’s a POS, you’re out of his grasp & that’s a blessing. You get to find someone better AND a better life without him. 💗
      & sorry you went thru that btw.. males are shit.

    • Reading with Richard
      Reading with Richard 10 days ago +5

      @mandypdx he was the main breadwinner while I was only working a couple days a week. He dropped the divorce on me over night so I went from living in an apartment with financial stability to looking at homelessness. Luckily his parents forced him to put a down payment on an apartment for me, otherwise hed have gladly left me on the streets. He even had a large chunk of my stuff thrown away

    USE THE BRICK 9 days ago +161

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years on Friday. We weren't married, but we lived together for 4 years, have pets together, the same social circles, etc. Videos like this are incredibly helpful, since it feels like no one in their twenties has been in a breakup leaving them single for the first time in their adult life 💔

  • GA Lady
    GA Lady 8 days ago +340

    This video randomly appeared on my Clip-Share feed and here I am. I never heard of this channel before so my thoughts have no basis beyond this video and personal experiences. Hannah, you do you. It's not always 'one day at a time' - sometimes it's one step at a time or one minute at a time. I never married and never will - I am far too strong willed and opinionated. Marriage isn't bad - it's just not for me. I'm 72 so single is my normal. I believe your unexpected emotional reaction during the video may be due to this channel being YOUR creation. Obviously Charles helped you but this channel is a direct reflection of you. You poured so much of yourself into each video. It probably feels like an extension of yourself and that would be normal. Maybe someday you will read comments on this video. If not that is definitely understandable. You are stronger than you realize. You are a fierce warrior. Heavy duty life lessons often suck. You have endured a major, horrific 'Hoover' experience

    • pinkbeachbike
      pinkbeachbike 3 days ago +2

    • VirgA
      VirgA 3 days ago +2

      @Brittney Anderson I agree 🥰💜

    • Brittney Anderson
      Brittney Anderson 4 days ago +3

      bless you GA Lady

    • Melanie Schnurr
      Melanie Schnurr 6 days ago +9

      i’m only 23 and i’m afraid i’ll never find love or get married. i know i’m young so i still have time and i know never getting married is ok too. i’m glad i found this comment because it’s rare finding people that have never been married. i think it’s super cool that you’ve been a single lady all this time and i hope if i never end up getting married that i turn out to be as kind as you seem to be for commenting such validating advice!

    • Molly Sullivan
      Molly Sullivan 6 days ago +30

      this is one of my favorite comments of all time. i too never watch this channel, not because she isn't a good content creator but because i only watch documentaries about history and science now lol. but the fact that you're normalizing never getting married even by the age of 72 is SO REFRESHING. thank you for putting that into perspective and reminding us all that happiness comes in all shapes and sizes.

  • Gina Ritz
    Gina Ritz 2 days ago

    This was a very nice post. I give you both all the credit in the world. If everyone could be adult and loving as you guys it would be a much better place. Bless you both always.

  • G. C.
    G. C. 9 days ago +165

    The death analogy is 100% accurate. It’s so devastating, it really is a point of just grieving and feeling that lost. It’s hard especially when they’re gone, but it’s not a final loss. They just aren’t in your life anymore, but they’re still out there.

  • I Hoard Makeup
    I Hoard Makeup 3 days ago

    We love you Hannah

  • Iotaa
    Iotaa 10 days ago +261

    My partner gave up on me 6 months after my Dad died. And trying to grieve them both has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Both of them were my support and the unconditional love I felt safe in, and there’s a part of me that feels like I’ll never be known like that again. I feel less valuable. It’s so lonely? But it’s so normal to feel awful where I am right now ❤

    • The First Face
      The First Face 4 days ago +1

      Just want you to know your message has reached empathetic eyes, everything you described is so normal and you are beyond worthy, hope you find a safe place and feel held again

    • rooneyboo
      rooneyboo 5 days ago

      The unconditional love ‘ hug’ is what I miss , never realise I defined myself so much by it , all the best ✨

    • Vivian Espinoza
      Vivian Espinoza 5 days ago

      Praying for u 🥺

    • Melanie Schnurr
      Melanie Schnurr 6 days ago

      youre not less valuable than you were with those ppl in your life. i know it can be nearly impossible to feel that when youre in deep with those emotions but youre your own person and your value is separate from those around you. i often question my value based on others too so i totally get how awful that can feel. im so sorry youre going through such a difficult time and i hope things start looking up bc you deserve happiness and unconditional love❤

    • External TV
      External TV 6 days ago

      Look if you cheated on your girlfriend, but you still love her, it is absolutely okay not to tell her or let her know. Sometimes it’s better to keep secrets and it helps you bring closer together. I did it so I know why it’s important to keep it away.

  • TimeBucks
    TimeBucks 9 days ago +540

    I am so sorry this has happened

  • Sonya @muttstew
    Sonya @muttstew Day ago

    Please don't ever apologize for being emotional! You are human and divorce is hard!

  • Thomas G
    Thomas G 10 days ago +437

    Hannah - Talking about the most emotional experience she has ever had
    Also Hannah - “I don’t know why I’m getting so emotional about this”
    Thank you for sharing your story Hannah we love you

  • Katarina Meyer
    Katarina Meyer 10 days ago +184

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 5+ years this year. I didn’t tell people things unless they asked, or if it got brought up myself casually in conversation. You don’t owe anyone an explanation no matter how much people beg for it. It’s was your relationship, and it’s your divorce. It helped me so much to be able to work through things and not make it such a huge deal. We are all going through seasons of life that change all of the time. It’s now a new season. The love you have Charles was never wasted, nor was his love to you. You now get the chance to love yourself and and friends and literally everything else in life.

    • Mags
      Mags 9 days ago +5

      I needed this comment, I just broke up my bf of 5 years and he’s adored by my much prying family. I haven’t told them yet and I don’t think I will unless they ask straight up

  • Riann Hale
    Riann Hale 10 days ago +98

    I hope this doesn't come off as a super fucked up thing to say- but I needed this video so badly this morning. You made me feel so much less alone, Hannah. There's no reason to explain my own situation here, and I won't ramble on- but thank you for being honest here and saying you had a fucking SHITTY year. You made it possible for me to just... say that, too, and be okay with it.
    I love you dearly, and we all believe in you. You're brilliant on your own, and the real secret is you always HAVE been. You deserve all of the grace.

    • K Howard
      K Howard 6 days ago +2

      I am sorry that you have had a shitty year. Keep going forward, one day at a time. Best wishes for a better year.

    • Kei Viajando
      Kei Viajando 6 days ago +6

      Not fucked up at all. Feeling relief for having someone else tp understand you or express what you going thru is absolutely normal and it doesn’t mean u are glad they have it bad too. Idk what you going thru specifically but I hope you have good people around and if you don’t, just know you got to keep pushing coz there’s light at the end of the tunel. You are loved and you are important and valid 💙

  • Kailynn Lock
    Kailynn Lock 10 days ago +119

    Living with an ex after the breakup is so difficult. It’s like the relationship isn’t over in a way. You still see them in the house, and you talk to them everyday. Totally connect to the feeling of like crushing grief once they’re gone. I lived with my ex for 4 months after our breakup and I thought I’d processed our breakup but it’s like it started over again once I moved out. Sending you so much love. These last few years have been hell for us all.

    • VirgA
      VirgA 3 days ago +1

      @I am Cool yes! absolutely 💜

    • I am Cool
      I am Cool 3 days ago +2

      You got this yo!

  • maggie yarbrough
    maggie yarbrough 9 days ago +128

    i lost relationships with almost all of my support system-my entire friend group and one of my parents-in one month in 2020. i am so feeling for the kind of loss and grief hannah is experiencing. i can’t say i’ve bounced back yet, but i can say that life will go on and you will (at least in some ways) change for the better, and i hope anyone watching this video/reading this comment section will find some comfort in that. wishing hannah all the strength in the world 🖤

    • maggie yarbrough
      maggie yarbrough 4 days ago

      @Sandra E you too!!!

    • Sandra E
      Sandra E 7 days ago +2

      I experienced something similar in 2019 and it hurt a lot. It's not easy. Wishing you the best Maggie ❤️❤️❤️

    • PinkPandaPolkaDotSundress
      PinkPandaPolkaDotSundress 8 days ago +3

      Wishing you love and light in these times Maggie ❤️

    • freezo
      freezo 8 days ago +4

      I just prayed for you, Maggie.

  • The Womanatee
    The Womanatee 10 days ago +537

    If anyone who is in touch with SG is checking her comments section, I'm positive the bulk of us would never prioritize a daily Glowmas video over her health and happiness. She can burn the calendar post-its and most of us fans would hand her the match and tell her to remember that we'll be around whenever she's ready.

    • The Womanatee
      The Womanatee 9 days ago

      @MissKit091 I am so sorry to hear about your friend and I hope they pull through okay. Losing a limb is incredibly difficult, and it is agonizing to watch someone you love struggle to survive. Sending you a virtual hug.
      I felt the same way you did about work when I lost a close friend around ten years ago. It helped immensely to have something else to focus on.
      I also saw the other side of that, though, a few years later when I lost my family. I couldn't concentrate on anything for months. It still feels like I lost an entire year of my life to the void - I barely remember anything from that period - and I was really lucky that I wasn't working at that time. Lord knows what havoc I might have wreacked on my clients. I'd been working in Sexual Health back then. Can you imagine going in to see a counselor about your HIV results only to find some crazy lady in pajamas with unbrushed hair, quietly weeping into the pint of ice cream on her desk?🤣

    • The Womanatee
      The Womanatee 9 days ago

      @Mari Also sorry to hear that you're going through it this year. I think you're right - maybe it's to do with everyone feeling the full effects of the pandemic financially, physically, and socially or something - because it truly seems like this season has been tough on everyone. I hope things get easier for you soon.💜

    • Mari
      Mari 10 days ago +3

      Yes! It’s a little crazy when people go through things like this and they ask for grace during this time and I’m like yes of course that goes without saying! You would have to be trash to be like “I don’t care upload everyday or I’ll unsubscribe” all of us with compassion and understanding will be here regardless of the consistency of her upload schedule right now. I definitely feel for her I’ve been going through a tough time this holiday season idk maybe it’s something in the air lol.

    • MissKit091
      MissKit091 10 days ago +7

      What I will say…as someone who was involved in a very tragic accident with my family (while on vacation!) where one of us lost a limb and is still currently fighting for their life even though it’s been MONTHS since the initial accident, I cannot say how much healing happened for me personally just going back to work. It allows me to focus on my job instead of the very obvious elephant in the room that is my family member quite literally fighting for their life and myself having, frankly, a little bit of survivors guilt. Sometimes…it’s better this way to pour energy into something that is not just sitting, and being with this event that fucking hurts. Either way she goes is the way to support!

    • Sage A. Marie
      Sage A. Marie 10 days ago +5

      Love this. Torch those post-it’s/calendar 😂 I wish I could send her a comment if she doesn’t post… like ‘proud of you, Hannah! You didn’t post and that’s ok bc you woke up today and somedays that is the absolute most- much love and see you whenever!❤🎉’

  • Lydia
    Lydia 8 days ago +62

    When she started talking about glowmas I teared up. I was 100% expecting her to say she’s not doing it this year. And I was totally fine with that too because damn we all need a break sometimes. I want us to normalize quitting lol. But when she just hit us with the news that glowmas is still on, I was just so touched at how strong and resilient she is in the face of all of this bs.

  • Nikki Sreckovic
    Nikki Sreckovic 3 hours ago

    You have so many people that love you. Please try to remember that.

  • Kedo
    Kedo 9 days ago +107

    People don't realize that there's a massive amount of growth and change that happens during your 20s. I'm sorry it didn't work out, and I hope you both are able to continue on and find happiness. Your 30s will be so much better!

  • Skylar Kennedy
    Skylar Kennedy 10 days ago +105

    It’s almost therapeutic to see that I am not alone in feeling that this has been a really hard year. I’ll be spending Thanksgiving alone for the first time in my life this year, because my family and I are not in a good spot, and during the entire year so many bad things have happened I also feel like I can’t catch a break.. Reading all the encouraging comments really helps and I’m wishing all the best for everyone as well. 💛

    • Kayleigh Armstrong
      Kayleigh Armstrong 8 days ago +2

      @Liz Bee me too, I hope you are well ✨

    • Liz Bee
      Liz Bee 9 days ago +5

      I just cut my parents off and am also alone this year. We'll get through it. To new and healthier Thanksgivings in the future. 😊

    • Ghost
      Ghost 9 days ago +2

      I hope you get to do something you like for yourself today! 🫂

  • Ellyn
    Ellyn 10 days ago +442

    the parasocial relationship took over for me on this one.
    sending you all of my positive energy and healing. thank you so so so much for giving us this sort of access to your life. you absolutely dont owe us anything so thank you 💖💖

    • sewgeek designs
      sewgeek designs 10 days ago

      Exactly 😢and she’s the one who taught me the word parasocial 😅

    • MaybeMableMaples
      MaybeMableMaples 10 days ago +22

      Sometimes just a little parasocialness is good. We all gotta be here for Hannah 🦹🏾‍♀️

  • Jenn Lecher
    Jenn Lecher 7 days ago +38

    *For anyone going through a breakup of a long term relationship: There’s an excellent book by John Grey called Mars and Venus Starting Over. It essentially treats the end of the relationship as a death, which it kind of is. I’ve read it after 2 breakups and a death and it helps sooo much, every time.*

  • Miss Russian Watch My Free Show

    I’m so sorry, divorces and breakups are pretty hard to go through especially when you go through a miscarriage the same year. This must be so hard for you, but just know that your fans are there for you and we love you❤❤

    • Amazon Queen
      Amazon Queen 2 days ago +1

      yes they are. he sounds like a good man. and all. as big as my heart is. i still do not want the good man protecting me from a distance and not speaking ill of me and ressuring me that he is going to still respect me. i want that person to still be mine. and that is how i know relationships are not for someone with a sensitive soul. and i have a that exact sensitive soul.

    • VirgA
      VirgA 3 days ago +1

      @ty thanh 😂😂😂

    • ty thanh
      ty thanh 8 days ago +1


      I HATE SATAN 8 days ago

      Wtf I just saw u on the witcher video small world eh?

  • Samantha Sullivan
    Samantha Sullivan 8 days ago +56

    Dated a guy for nearly 6 years, another person after that for 2 years, then met my now husband who I’ve been with for 10 years. Relationships are weird and difficult things, and break ups and divorce are just like mourning another person passing away, but it’s also a death of an era. I wish nothing but the best for you and Charles, no matter together or not. 💕💕💕

  • Max Zytaruk
    Max Zytaruk 9 days ago +43

    Wow Hannah you're TRENDING on youtube, I remember when you had like 11 comments on a video and maybe 400 views.. you're inspiring hundreds of thousands of people to be more vulnerable

    • Reese Grey Analyzes
      Reese Grey Analyzes 6 days ago +1

      Beautifully said. She's such an amazing Clip-Sharer, an absolute inspiration

  • dariasdouble212
    dariasdouble212 10 days ago +445

    People don't realize that there's a massive amount of growth and change that happens during your 20s. I'm sorry it didn't work out, and I hope you both are able to continue on and find happiness. Your 30s will be so much better!

    • Random Dude
      Random Dude 9 days ago

      Usually it’s spiritual growth and not so much the physical like this lady

    • Di :3
      Di :3 9 days ago +1

      @PenskePC23 They are much better because you are actually maturing finally but maturing comes with a price.

    • Ana Durando
      Ana Durando 9 days ago

      i agree, 30s are so much better!

    • PenskePC23
      PenskePC23 9 days ago +11

      @Di :3 nah, for most people your 30s are the best. Young enough to enjoy life, but wise enough to get over the imperfections.

    • Jesus Saves!
      Jesus Saves! 10 days ago

      When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals!
      The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil.
      I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God.
      Open your heart to God, repent of your sins (he will forgive you), and let him direct your path. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands and purify your heart, lest you walk with the devil and follow him to hell.

  • Slap Pappy
    Slap Pappy 8 days ago +11

    This video must’ve been pushed by the algorithm to a bunch of random weirdos cus there’s a gross amount of hate… but that’s what I get for sorting the comments by most recent…. Hannah is a lovely person it’s very clear these people calling her foul names have no sympathy or compassion.

    • Slap Pappy
      Slap Pappy 8 days ago +8

      @Blicky Blackface I never said it was unexpected. I said it was gross. Cuz it is.

    • Slap Pappy
      Slap Pappy 8 days ago +4

      @Blicky Blackface that’s a horrible excuse. Just cus people are asses doesn’t mean it’s right? You can hate hate hate all day long that doesn’t mean I can’t try to stick up for someone who did nothing wrong.

  • MJHutchinson4
    MJHutchinson4 8 days ago +21

    Divorce is so hard. I just want to give her a hug and tell her she will get through this. I was married for 9 years to a man who I had been with for a total of 15. We had literally learned how to do ALL of the adult things together. It was so hard to learn that I was completely capable of doing all of those things without him, too. It was awful and exhausting and scary, but now I have learned how strong and smart and resilient I am as my own person. In the end it was empowering and I really value that journey but it isn’t an easy one.

  • Mariah
    Mariah 9 days ago +20

    Call it the parasocial relationship of it all but I think we are here for YOU and your content is a cherry on top. You seem a genuine, kind person and you have all the support we can offer as a little group of people that watch you. Can’t wait for whatever you can achieve for Glowmas! Fa la la la laaaaa haha

  • Alyxandria Usle
    Alyxandria Usle 7 days ago +3

    Why has this been the year from hell for everyone? My goodness. I’ve separated from my 7 year relationship in February, finally got covid this year after avoiding it for the past 2+ years. Had to watch my 2 and 4 year old go through covid. Had to move out of the first place that’s felt like home in over a decade. Had a cancer scare and health problems and surgeries just repeatedly over this year. Like…. Goodness is anyone else ready for a new year to start and leave this freaking mess behind? I’m just hoping and praying we all get a break next year and that maybe things can be a bit better for all of us. Also thank you to everyone who follows this channel. I’ve never found a channel with such nice people following it. I wish all of us the best for the next year and let’s watch the hell out of glowmas!!!!

  • Anne Poler
    Anne Poler 10 days ago +868

    Since Hannah isn't seeing that I'll address it to anyone going through heartache right now: Its so, so hard. You *will* survive this. You're not alone.

    • frnk
      frnk 7 days ago +1

      it is definitely the worst pain I've ever felt. I know "it gets better" doesn't do much right when it's happening. in some ways, it doesn't really get better. I think things that cut deep can cause pain for a long time. but there will be upsides too. I am more myself and more bold and free in a lot of ways. it's been only a couple months for me, though. this is just how I'm feeling about it lately.

    • Beast Titan Official
      Beast Titan Official 9 days ago +2

      Thank you ❤️

    • Alejandra Acosta
      Alejandra Acosta 9 days ago

      @Jesus Saves! please stop don’t shove your religion down people’s throat

    • Random Dude
      Random Dude 9 days ago

      Are you also obese though?

    • Jesus Saves!
      Jesus Saves! 10 days ago +1

      When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals!
      The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil.
      I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God.
      Open your heart to God, repent of your sins (he will forgive you), and let him direct your path. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands and purify your heart, lest you walk with the devil and follow him to hell.

  • Megan D
    Megan D 4 days ago +7

    So much love girl.
    I got divorced in 2016 after 5 years and felt so embarrassed that people were having babies and doing all these milestone things and here I was going backwards. Then on Thanksgiving my current fiance and I had such a blowout fight I seriously considered ending things and we have also been together 5 years and again just felt so embarrassed.
    I feel like I just keep wasting my time in these relationships and nothing I do moves my life forward. So I totally understand all the mixed emotions when you've been with someone for so long. I wish you all the best as you navigate this

  • Hannah Holleman
    Hannah Holleman 4 days ago +9

    A relationship does not have to last forever to be successful. You guys spent so much of your formative years together and I’m glad you two are remaining friends.

  • Jen M
    Jen M 9 days ago +97

    Eight minutes in and I'm already in tears. The way you described how much you still care for him, and the respect you showed even through your pain really got me.

  • just a mango
    just a mango 50 minutes ago

    You are amazing

  • Emerald Blue
    Emerald Blue 10 days ago +494

    I'm so sorry, Hannah. This has been my year from hell too. Between Late Feb & Oct i lost my job, turned 50, got divorced after 29yrs, my best friend of 45yr died from cancer 6mo after I moved to be her caretaker, my only kid moved 5k miles away & I moved twice to 2 states. I'm finally seeing the sun again. How i didn't end up in the psych hospital, I still don't understand. No sage advice. Just keep waking up & showing up. ❤

    • Lauren Reinhold
      Lauren Reinhold 9 days ago

      You’re a strong mf

    • Becca W
      Becca W 10 days ago +1

      Well done on being so strong - it sounds like you’ve done amazing.

    • Amy
      Amy 10 days ago +1

      Oh man thats an awful lot to go through. Sending lots of love xxx

    • GMc
      GMc 10 days ago +3

      Rooting for you, when you hit rock bottom you can only go up

    • Kate Stewart
      Kate Stewart 10 days ago +2

      I'm so sorry that you've had to face all of that 💜

  • Andar Wärje
    Andar Wärje  9 days ago +9

    I was in the ER this weekend having a PTSD psychotic break, so I'm here with you girl, thank you for sharing when I need a friendly face

  • Chanel Chic
    Chanel Chic 10 days ago +68

    Just mutually broke up with by my girlfriend of 10 years who I knew for 14 years around my birthday. We were together when we were young teenagers, going through high school and college and moving in together as well. I’ve never been in another romantic relationship besides her and when we broke up I was very confused because I’ve spent my whole childhood with her and didn’t know what life looked like without her. God breakups are horrible, especially telling your family, people that were on the verge of buying outfits for a wedding that they thought was 100% coming up. Not only did I loose her, I lost her family and her friends who I’ve known for so long and have so many memories with dating back to 8th grade. It’s like loosing a chunk of yourself you didn’t know you could loose. It’s been 3 months since then and it still hurts but each day I feel a little more like me. I’m praying for you and your situation, this is a hard time for sure but there is nothing you can’t do

  • Bri Lyga
    Bri Lyga 9 days ago +24

    I’m so proud of you and Charles for handling this like adults. I’ve been thinking about you lately and was worried. You have such a good support system so don’t be afraid to lean on them! We love you ❤

  • Taylor Stroud
    Taylor Stroud 4 days ago +2

    My husband of 9 years and I are getting divorced soon as well. We got married at 18 and 21, and we just grew apart. We stayed together for our kids but we’ve finally agreed that just co-parenting will be better for us all. It’s a struggle to get through still for sure!!

  • Molly Burke
    Molly Burke 10 days ago +2142

    The best thing I did for myself during my breakup a year ago was keep it private and only tell close family and 1 or 2 friends during the first few months and I can't recommend it enough, so I'm sorry you weren't able to have that. I too, like many, have had a really rough year and I'm praying for all of us there are brighter days ahead in 2023.

      USE THE BRICK 9 days ago

      Love you Molly. Cheers to '23. I know you and Elton John will take on the world

    • Alexis C
      Alexis C 9 days ago +3

      @SteviiLove thats a really weird thing to say about a relationship you are not apart of and even worse to comment that directly at the creator you are gossiping about.

    • xxx123lmnopxxx
      xxx123lmnopxxx 10 days ago +4

      @hellopoodles I personally noticed this too. I think Molly is not very good at framing things from the perspective of the person shes talking to so she can come off as being rude instead of empathetic

    • Random Dude
      Random Dude 10 days ago

      Are you also obese?

    • Rosa de Plata
      Rosa de Plata 10 days ago +1

      Omg my world's are colliding. It's Molly Burke on a Hannah video comment section.

  • Snowy Dushenok
    Snowy Dushenok 4 days ago +1

    You’ve been with me in my dark and bright days, I laughed with you, I learned about friendship, studying and all the celebrity “drama” nobody needs but many enjoy. So I just wanna be with you here today too, for you. And I am commenting from my cat’s account lol.

  • lisasbooklife -Lisa Hennessey

    I left my ex, my 2 kids father, 19 months ago. We were together 15 years. We met at 14. Started dating at 21, and I left him at 36. My situation is horrible bc it was DV. He went from being my best friend foe half of my life and then became a monster to me. 19 months Katerina a lot of the fog has cleared and I understand so clearly all the forms of abuse I lived through. And I went from leaving with a backpack on each kid in the middle of the night to now working full time, living with another single mom and her kids along with mine, and while struggling paycheck to paycheck, I'm doing it.
    Even though he's now a convicted felon, ita hard to not remember the times he was there for big things like you were explaining. I get it. I do not miss him at all and the world was lifted off my shoulders when I escaped. But navigating life alone with my 2 kids has been beyond challenging. Going from a stay at home to now needing to pay for daycare so I can work 50-60 hours a week to just live has been hard.
    With that said. YOU. CAN. DO. THIS. It can be really hard. Certain emotions will slam into you out of nowhere. There will be hard days. There will be amazing days. Lean om those in your life you trust and I promise you will navigate it. I'm not ok yet. But I'm still here and I tuck in 2 happy, safe kids every night.
    Hugs to you. Take ALL the time you need. For YOU. Do what makes you happy and what your soul needs.
    You are beautiful.

  • Keri Nichols
    Keri Nichols 7 days ago +7

    I was with my highschool sweetheart for over 17 years when he told me he wanted to separate. A week later he left the house. I found out he was cheating and it was the 2nd most horrible thing to ever happen to me. I filed for a divorce. I was left with the house, all the bills, and figuring everything out myself and taking it all on financially. This is the person I also considered my bestfriend. The betrayal and grief were overwhelming. However, I did big things and saved myself. I without him took my whole life back and have a list of accomplishments a mile long. I never thought I could be without this person. I just want you to know you will accomplish such great things now and in your future. Those accomplishments and the badassness of overcoming and thriving will belong to you. I’m sure many people can relate to your sorry and my story. I’m thankful everyday when someone shares their story. I’m not alone and neither are you. I’m so proud of you, and you can do such hard things.

  • xwinoxrhinox
    xwinoxrhinox 9 days ago +26

    i really appreciate what you said about normalizing bad stretches in life and the emotions that go with it. going through those experiences is bad enough but feeling alone in it is even worse, so what you are doing here is important. i’m so sorry you’ve been going through such a shit time and i hope everything balances back into your favor very soon. ❤

  • Bugaboo_Daisy
    Bugaboo_Daisy 10 days ago +350

    An amicable divorce is always better than a terrible marriage, though both are more than painful. We missed you!

  • Orlenca De La Cruz
    Orlenca De La Cruz 9 days ago +2

    This comment section is wonderful. My goodness what a great community ❤️. Hannah you got this.

  • Kate Noone
    Kate Noone 8 days ago +2

    This indeed has been one crap hole of a year. As someone who is almost 40 and never had love at least you experienced it. Best wishes for you. God bless.

  • Shauna Diller
    Shauna Diller 5 days ago +1

    Classy as always, Hannah. I'm also currently getting divorced from my partner of eight years, husband of four. It's so hard, you're not alone. It's good to see you again, you've been missed.

  • Pau
    Pau 3 days ago +1

    I had two miscarriages this year and I def got through the first one because of your miscarriage video. Thank you for being vulnerable, it helps more than you know 💕

  • Kaycee Loftis
    Kaycee Loftis 10 days ago +853

    As a single mother going through med school, I can confidently say that you are significantly more capable than you realize. There will be moments that you surprise yourself, but change will happen and it's scary. You've got this though, and your best days have yet to happen!

    • Trista Ishmael
      Trista Ishmael 6 days ago

      Ummm you’re a badass

    • Jackie
      Jackie 10 days ago +1

      Fellow med student here. Amazing job!!!❤

    • Alliem96
      Alliem96 10 days ago

      @sourgreendolly one of my best friends went back to school and is pushing through! If no one’s said it, I know you can do it❤️

    • sourgreendolly
      sourgreendolly 10 days ago +1

      Wow! Just hearing this is so inspirational! I'm not a parent but I want to go back to school and it intimidates tf outta me. You're right though, I do surprise myself sometimes- and that can only happen when I do things that feel too hard to do.

    • Destiny Diamond
      Destiny Diamond 10 days ago +1

      I love this gathering of strong, successful women supporting each other. Very beautiful! 🥰

  • Angel Destiny
    Angel Destiny 6 days ago +6

    This was a very mature way to handle the situation, as for the divorce and how y'all are moving about afterwards. We live in such a toxic world that people really don't understand that sometimes things just don't work out but that doesn't mean the love wasn't or isn't there. Life can be very unfair and we all have to move through it in our own way. I am glad you and your ex are on amicable terms. I wish you both all the best and hope there is deep healing for you during this time.

  • Allison Brooks
    Allison Brooks 10 days ago +5

    There is an incredible sense of pride when you achieve something on your own !!! It can fuel you to take on other challenges with your chin up and crush that imposter syndrome . You don’t know how strong you are until it’s the only choice you have.

  • bilinas mini
    bilinas mini 8 days ago +5

    I know Hannah isn’t seeing this but I wanted to say it anyway. This is literally EXACTLY what I needed. I just ended my relationship of almost 6 years with my fiancé. From 19-2

  • BittiKit
    BittiKit 3 days ago +1

    I’m 25, and looking at potential divorce after separation. This year has been the worst of my whole life. Much love to you.

  • Noelle Ferris
    Noelle Ferris 10 days ago +466

    Just to say, I have a friend who sometimes needs to "flee" as she calls it. Sometimes it's in a busy crowd, sometimes it's off the phone for a few months. But the people she loves knows that she always comes back, in her own time, and it's like she never left. You had to "flee" for a little while. And we're here for whenever you come back. :)

    • Noelle Ferris
      Noelle Ferris 5 days ago +1

      @theducksass This means so much!

    • Noelle Ferris
      Noelle Ferris 5 days ago +1

      @Jaclyn Valla Thank you! :) We all need to flee every now and then.

    • Cd Vx
      Cd Vx 8 days ago +2

      This comment and the aswers are so validating. I feel like you put my brain into words!

    • theducksass
      theducksass 9 days ago +3

      Like many others in these comments what you said resonates so strongly with people like us (fleers lol). I just want to say thank you for speaking of your friend with so much kindness and understanding. I just had 3 friends of 20 years tell me they’ve had enough of my fleeing and they don’t want to be my friend anymore. I hope someday to meet people like you. :)

    • Jaclyn Valla
      Jaclyn Valla 9 days ago +3

      @L.K. Tori Sounds like the kind of friends I want to have.

  • Xtina_bert
    Xtina_bert 9 days ago +1

    Thank you for sharing going through a hard time while you’re still in. It so needs to be normalized.
    I also am in a season of grief and loss. I’ve been enduring 4 years of infertility and then 2 miscarriages. I’m so devastated and heartbroken. Thankfully therapy is helping. So even though our journey is so different, I see your pain. I’m so sorry. Sending you love & light! ❤❤❤

  • Hannah Smith
    Hannah Smith 9 days ago +7

    Oh Hannah, my heart sank when I saw the title. Much love! As T Swift says, "Hang on. It gets easier, then it gets okay, and then it feels like freedom." Thinking of you and looking forward to whatever Glowmas may entail!

  • Jenn Lecher
    Jenn Lecher 7 days ago +1

    I’ve had 5 long term relationships in my 47 years and I’m still friends with every single one of my ex’s. Just because you aren’t meant to be partners in life, doesn’t mean you can’t still care for and respect someone you were once in love with.

  • Tawney
    Tawney 9 days ago +8

    I feel for you, Smoke. This is tough and you’re so strong for even getting through this and coming out on the other side. My ex and I were looking to buy a house the week he dumped me. Thankfully we were able to cancel those plans without issue but it was hard to tell the realtor that we weren’t getting a house because he dumped me. You’re so strong and I’m so proud of you for making it this far.

  • The Robot Devil
    The Robot Devil 10 days ago +593

    I think it's beautiful that this comment section is so filled with such loving support and kind words, Hannah has truly built a wonderful Clip-Share community. I know she won't read all these comments, but I hope that the encouraging words everybody's writing here impacts all the viewers who read them, and that maybe somehow the positive vibes reach her.

    • Oregon Crow
      Oregon Crow 8 days ago

      Most of them are bots, lol. I mean look at the one named: "Come fast to get into my body". ahhhhhhhhhhhhh hahahahahahahahaahahahahahahaha

    • PurpleKittyKelly
      PurpleKittyKelly 9 days ago +2

      I think she'll come back and read them someday. I have a feeling. 💛

  • Lori Gemini Tarot
    Lori Gemini Tarot 5 days ago +1

    I was married for ten years. We ended this amicable for the most part but it was still difficult. Your feelings are valid. Marriage is a blood sport. We are hear for you ❤

  • Try again
    Try again 8 days ago +5

    Once you develop a "bond" with someone regardless virtual or reality, you just wanna see and hear from them. I love how you talk as if we are actually friends. I've missed you and it tugs at my heart hearing how rough things are going for you. Take care Hannah ♥️ I was happy to see you posted I clicked as soon as I could

  • Ghost
    Ghost 9 days ago +7

    Smokey really feels like one of the most genuine and grounded people in youtube. I really admire her

  • Addressa
    Addressa 9 days ago +3

    hey girl - i'm going through a break up too right now after 8 1/2 years, so it's hard and i related to so much of what you were saying. we can do this and we're going to be ok.

  • Kara Nolting
    Kara Nolting 10 days ago +367

    My divorce was so amicable that when my now ex and I walked into city hall to fill out paperwork, the registrar assumed we were picking it up for friends of ours and not us because we were laughing and joking. When we decided to end our marriage/relationship, the relief we both felt allowed us to relax and be ourselves again. We didn't remain friends because well neither of us wanted to be around the other full stop but the respect and kindness was and is still there. We will always wish each other well.

  • sarah chill omg
    sarah chill omg 5 days ago +2

    Hannah, I found your channel when I was going through an awful period in my life. I had a year where I couldn't catch a break either. I wish I could do more to return that favor, but I know that all of us who love your videos will do anything we can to support you and your amazing work.

  • J
    J 10 days ago +9

    What you said about normalizing going through hard times is so important. I think there can be an unconscious layer of pain that takes the form of great suffering because there isn't that thought of "others get this. Others understand this exact pain that I'm feeling." There isn't that lifeline that allows a person to be lifted up even just a little to see outside of their curled up ball of pain. Feeling like all that exists is this pain--that you alone are feeling--makes the pain itself even worse. So what you're doing by normalizing it is a tremendous and powerful gift. I am beyond positive that your words here are a source of comfort to many. Your own healing becomes others' healing. Thank you for your presence. And I am so very sorry about your loss. Thank you for speaking about it with such honesty and intention. I sense your pain and I trust that, as you process and work through this pain, you will heal and grow to levels you might not, from this vantage point, realize are possible.

  • Melvin Guerrero
    Melvin Guerrero 8 days ago +1

    5:38 Whoever's reading this, i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you're struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! ^_^

  • Eli
    Eli 10 days ago

    Sending love in this time. I can’t imagine how hard this is. Best of hope in this healing process ❤❤❤

  • Kedo
    Kedo 9 days ago +3

    I think it's beautiful that this comment section is so filled with such loving support and kind words, Hannah has truly built a wonderful Clip-Share community. I know she won't read all these comments, but I hope that the encouraging words everybody's writing here impacts all the viewers who read them, and that maybe somehow the positive vibes reach her.

  • Sarah Cox
    Sarah Cox 10 days ago +7

    This year has been one catastrophe after another for so many people. Sending good vibes to you and everyone going through this awful year.

  • Megan Hardwick
    Megan Hardwick 9 days ago +2

    I’ll keep it short. I really hope and pray that you get the life and happiness you deserve. I’m so sorry for you and Charles.

  • Gabriella Frances
    Gabriella Frances 9 days ago +2

    oh wow, so good to see you Hannah. So sorry to hear about the hell you've been living. I hope you have a much better year in 2023 ❤❤

  • becci trauti
    becci trauti 8 days ago +1

    My goodness, just the other day I thought about you. And thought how is she doing. I remembered you struggling with your mental health and was hoping all is going well.
    Love you girl! Hoping your 2023 is gonna be better! ❤❤❤

  • lindsaylaughs
    lindsaylaughs 10 days ago +4

    We all receive support from our partners, friends, etc, but everything that we do comes from our choice to put the work in and execute it. YOU did the work to get your degree, post often, to do hours of researching and editing. Support makes a world of a difference, but don't forget to credit yourself too! I can only imagine that what you've been going through this past year has all been so life changing and painful. You don't ever need to apologize for needing time for yourself. It's going to take a lot of time for a new routine and life to form. It's so lovely to know that you guys are splitting as kindly as you guys can, as it's clear that you guys care and respect each other always. Sending love, virtual hugs, and healing energy. I hope that this next year and chapter is gentle with you and brings in so much joy❤

  • N C
    N C 8 days ago +2

    Hannah. You’ve GOT THIS GIRL. I’m so excited to see this glowmas month. I’ll be cheering you on every GD step of the way